Day 1

6:00 pm - 9:00 pm

WHAT IT TAKES TO OUT YOUR INNER AWESOME so you can Get The life and relationships you want.

Whether you have been on a personal development path for some time or are just beginning, you will learn in this session the key mindsets shifts that will enable you to achieve things beyond your imagining as you put into practice the principles and lessons of What it takes to OUT Your Inner AWESOME!

 We all have inside us a piece of AWESOME news! The awesome news is that we don’t really know how great we can be, how much we can love, what we can accomplish, and what our potential is. And your time is now to OUT your Inner AWESOME!

By acting on this new awareness and stretching right to the edge of your abilities, you activate your neuroplasticity to build new circuitry – to transform how you think, what you believe, what you do and who you are.

Here’s what we’ll cover to kick off the retreat:

  • I will introduce myself and my story of failure and success when it comes to love and life.

  • The key mindset shift you need to have to Get the life and Relationship you want.

  • Get a clear picture of where you are and what you need to do to become “The One” so you get the life and relationships you want.

  • A Brief overview of what we will cover during the retreat.

  • How to take advantage of this program to create a relationship blue print that will set the stage of your AWESOME Life.

STEP ONE - LET GO OF THE OLD YOU AND CREATE A NEW YOU

Take Inventory of the PAST to create a new you!

This could be one of the most life-changing things you do to attract the life and relationships you want! So many programs focus on creating a new version of yourself. And we will too, but not before you let go of the old subconscious programming that is currently writing the script of your current reality and default future! You cannot build something new and solid on the crumbled debris of something old and weak. Only when you take action to break free from limiting beliefs and norms do you become free to create your best life. Release THEN re-build! 

 Here is what we will cover during STEP ONE:

  • Gain insights on how our upbringing plays a critical role in our selection process and how we perceive ourselves, others and situations.

  • Identify your blind spots and find new effective ways to overcome any obstacles that get in your way of being in or finding a meaningful relationship.

  • Eliminate the limiting beliefs, self-criticism and negative patterns of thinking that are preventing you from taking your life and relationships to the next level.

  • Learn how to create supporting beliefs about yourself and (potential) partners aligned with the type of relationship that will be best for you and your family.

  • Let go of past programming, past resentment and past heartache once and for all! It’s a year’s worth of therapy in a weekend.

Day 2

8:00 am - 8:00 pm

HOW TO GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY TO BECOME CRYSTAL CLEAR ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT

Creating successful relationships from the future!

Still wondering what type of person you need to be to have a conscious loving win/win relationship?

If you are in a relationship, do you want to find out how your partner can Become The One a second time around? This is for you.

By building new neural pathways to align with your heart desires, adopting empowering discoveries of what you want in your bright future and realizing the possibilities unleashed from liberating yourself from your subconscious programming,  you literally can change your mind! You can have a clear vision of what SUCCESS in relationships mean to you and your brain will begin to automatically look for ways to make it REAL for you!

Here is what we will cover during STEP TWO:

  • The key characteristics of a conscious relationship.

  • The fraudulent promise of romantic love. What can you do to stop any conflict in your relationship or repeating the same mistakes over and over again?

    • What is romantic love.

    • How do we fall in love

    • What happens after the honeymoon is over.

    • How to find it again by becoming a lover!

  • How to align behaviors with your core values and honor your deepest desires so you can get alignment with or attract a partner that respects or shares similar beliefs, values, and purpose as you.

  • Describe what SUCCESS is for you.

  • You know what to do, so Why do you fail at reaching your goals? It’s your fear of change and failure!  When you learn how to shift your relationship with change, you’ll open doors you never even knew existed. This is seriously one of the most life-changing skills you can master as you will discover the secret to processing everything in a way that ONLY serves you and your highest good!

  • What is the true meaning of your goal? It’s not about the destination, it’s about the journey and enjoying how it unfolds in your quest to finding or fixing love. This is about tuning into desire rather than desperation so that your journey to love is fun and nurturing!

  • Success is not a doing process; success is a becoming process. Our level of success in creating the perfect relationship is in direct proportion to our level of self- worth.

  • What does our self-worth consist of? It is a combination of our self-concept, our self-esteem and our self-confidence. When you tune into the frequencies of these three identities, you’ll start to operate from your own set of carefully constructed values and principles. Life is about to get easy!!! Because from now on, you’ll always know your answers. Every decision is easy to make- it either supports your self-identities, or it doesn’t! Period!

  • Meet your Future Self and learn the legacy it would like to leave behind

STEP THREE - HOW TO BE REAL WHEN COMMUNICATING WITH YOURSELF, YOUR LOVED ONES AND POTENTIAL PARTNERS

Own your truth and speak your story!

If you feel that no one understands your needs, and you are frequently triggered by the behaviors of others, you don’t know how to win the love and affection of your partner and you are constantly criticizing yourself, others and blaming the world around you, then this is for you. 

Language is the most powerful tool to create and manifest our hearts wildest and most audacious goals, such as having the fulfilling, passionate relationship of our dreams.

Once you understand how language creates your current reality and how to create a new one that reflects the truth of who you are, you can enroll yourself and others in your mission to make your vision a reality.  By knowing the art of powerful communication, you will be well on your way to create win-win relationships.

This is what we will cover during STEP THREE:

  • The power of story and what communication is and why it matters, why it’s important to master communicating with words & body language, the different types of communication, and how to avoid miscommunication.

  • The difference between being in a story and being your true authentic self.  Who you truly are is powerful beyond measure with infinite potential to Get anything you want.

  • How to separate your story from the truth of who you are.

  • How to speak to yourself to boost self-esteem and how to create affirmations in order to communicate better with yourself.  The most important communication is the communication with yourself.

  • How to be authentic and real with TOTAL confidence by owning your story and speaking your truth. (Because confidence is HOT!)

  • How to be vulnerable (Vulnerable is the new black. Mastering the art of vulnerability is one of the most powerful things you can do for yourself!)

  • The best communication style to use when looking for THE ONE so that you send out exactly the right signals! You are going to master the art of attraction in a way that makes you irresistible to your partner and potential partner!

STEP FOUR - GET LOVED UP AND STRIVE FOR GREATNESS

Master your emotions so you can be an irresistible energy force.

Most of us are like pressure cookers! We carry around with us a huge reservoir of accumulated negative feelings, attitudes and beliefs. The accumulated pressure makes us miserable and is the basis of our illnesses and all the problems in our relationships.  When we take a close look at our lives, we see that it is one long, elaborate struggle to escape our inner fears and expectations that have been projected upon us by others.  We have become afraid of our inner feelings because they hold such a massive amount of negativity that we fear we would be overwhelmed by it if we were to take a deeper look… And the more we hold on to these negative feelings such as shame, guilt, resentment, anger, we suffer and our relationships suffer… If that is you, this session is for you.

Without access to the power of your emotions, you’ll lack not only the motivation to change in spectacular ways but also the information and transformative magic that emotions unlock!

The better you feel, the more positive energy you exude, the more your relationships will benefit, the faster you will be able to attract the One or rekindle your relationship with your partner. And that starts by Getting loved up! In other words being your Bigger Self instead of your Smallest Self.  It’s about mastering the practice of forgiveness and acceptance. Its about letting go of judgment and all negative emotions.  By letting go of one negative emotion, you let go of a billion thoughts associated with that negative emotion.

The real source of our negative emotions is actually internal; it is not external.

What we are holding inside colors our world.

The more fear and anger we have on the inside, the more our perception of the world is changed to a fearful and angry place. So stop blaming everyone and everything around you for your happiness and take accountability for the way you feel and a closer look at what is happening inside you.

This is what we will cover during STEP FOUR:

  • How to embrace your present reality as you work towards your dream reality! You are the model of LOVE and Light for your children and you must begin being that model today. Not once you’ve met him. Not once you’ve fixed it. TODAY! I’ll show you how to do that even if you’re having a tough time finding ANYTHING to be positive about right now!

  • The law of reflection What you see in others is inside you

  • Learn how to overcome fear of rejection, intimacy, failure, and success

  • Inner Peace is the pre requisite for creating meaningful connections.  Inner Peace is an inside job accomplished through the power of Forgiveness and Surrender.

  • How to take accountability for our emotions and use them in service of our transformation and the betterment of our relationships.

  • How to have a heart at peace before engaging with others.

  • How to to be in the court of your life vs the side line.

Day 3

8:00 am - 6:00 pm

STEP FIVE: HOW TO BUILT FRIENDSHIPS THAT UP-LEVEL YOUR ENTIRE LIFE

The relationships that will set you free!

As a parent, this concept becomes even more important. You have to cultivate relationships with the right people, because they influence your kids directly and indirectly. How? The impact that these relationships have on you affect you every single day, which in turn affects how you relate to your kids.

A major factor in getting the life and relationship of your dreams is surrounding yourself with the people who bring not only happiness and joy, but also a great deal of inspiration, positivity, and encouragement into your life.

Anyone who has achieved greatness often attributes that success to mentors and influencers. Who are YOUR influencers?

We are born in relationships, we are bruised in relationships and we heal in relationships. We can’t transform alone. People don’t change on their own. We only change by connection, repetition and reframing. We need to be in relationships that inspire us to grow and evolve into our best selves.

This is what we will cover during STEP FIVE:

  •  The 5 relationships you need to develop during your journey of becoming The One.

  • The friendship formula that makes you irresistible in social settings.

  • How to overcome blocks to successful interpersonal connections (This makes success EASY for you)

  • How to have a good friend and BE a good friend- This isn’t what you think- This is about the "The Power Of the Unstoppable Two," an extraordinary practice that leverages the power of the duo! Maybe you have enough friends already? This module will help you maximize those friendships so that they become even deeper and more sacred sources of light and support in your life.

  • How to identify and build win-win relationships that will take you to the next level.

  • How to communicate with others, build rapport and form deep bonds without having to play games or be someone you’re not. This is HUGE. When you learn how to do this completely as yourself, you will find that ONLY the people who are destined to be in your life will show up and stay!

  • The key ingredients to create deeper connections that fuel trust and establish unbreakable bonds

STEP SIX - HOW TO CREATE RITUALS FOR BECOMING THE ONE THAT WILL SPEED UP YOUR TRANSFORMATION AND YOUR JOURNEY TO FINDING THE ONE!

Creating your relationship Blueprint

While you may learn and grow, it isn’t enough to transform. Research continuously demonstrates that no matter how many courses you take, books you read, good things you try or good thoughts you think, unless you reprogram your subconscious mind, you won’t transform.

This blueprint that you will create will use the plasticity of your brain to rewire patterns of thought, feeling and action.  It will literally change your mind, building neural pathways to align with your yearnings and vision of life.  

To build your dream life and relationship is a construction job of your transformation. Rather than a physical job of building a dream home, you are building a life of win/win relationships.  And we do it through the power of rituals!  

It’s not a secret. Mastery takes practice but practice can be FUN!

This is what we will cover during STEP THREE:

  • How to leverage your spiritual, mental, emotional and physical muscles to build your relationship blueprint.

  • Fast and easy rituals to find love while navigating the complexities of parenthood.

  • How to create rituals in your life that will keep you spiritually aligned, mentally focused, emotionally connected and physically energized to maximize performance and productivity.

  • Creating your relationship blueprint exercise that will help you create ONLY meaningful, loving and passionate relationships with whoever you desire! (No more wasting time on dates that go nowhere. No more being in relationships that do not fulfill you. NO one has time for that. This is the last step to getting the love you want!